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when does a relationship turn serious?

In the past couple weeks I've had a few conversations about chivalry, dating, independence and the role that they each play in dating or relationships. Among those conversations, the one that stood out the most to me was defining the seriousness of a relationship -- and when you compromise your independence.Most 20-somethings fresh out of college are thinking about establishment...

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Sex on a first date… good or bad?

Well I suppose it really depends, is it also the last date? ha, im playing.If you are going to date someone, whats the rush? Why not take the time to get to know them -- who they are, what they are about, what they stand for, and etc. -- before you lay down with them.If you're really trying to build with someone, a foundation based on the physical connection probably won't sustain like one based on mental connection. Besides, waiting on sex just adds to how much you actually value the simple company of that person.If you're just looking for the physical (as long as both parties...

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Business has no business in love, unless its a partnership [Guest Blogger]

Submitted by Miss Proctor Partnership or Relationship? Most of the definitions I stumbled upon for the word “partnership” interestingly enough dealt with business; I was even referenced to a financial dictionary for one of the definitions of partnership. But I found an interesting one out of the bunch:Partnership: “A relationship between individuals or groups that is characterized by mutual cooperation and responsibility, as for the achievement of a specified goal: Neighborhood groups formed a partnership to fight crime.”I don’t seek to be in a relationship. Terms like “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” are used as mediums for control and are superficial. Exchanges between “boyfriends” and “girlfriends” are often reduced...

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Post-relationship relationships.

Its always a tough line to dance around -- especially factoring in how long the relationship was and how it ended. Being able to separate current feelings from the comfort and habits formed during that relationship to make sense of the new situation at hand.Let me just go ahead and say this now: YOU CAN NOT BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR EX.Now before you stop reading because you think I'm one crazy mutha (shut yo mouth!) ...

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